You’re Engaged! Now What?

 

When getting engaged there is, hopefully, an overwhelming feeling of certainty as you say yes to your life partner, but often what comes next is a seemingly endless to-do list to start planning your perfect wedding day. Here is a step-by-step guide to getting started after saying yes!

Enjoy the Fiancé Phase

Being engaged is a short period in your long life with your partner, so enjoy this in-between period full of excitement and anticipation. Say fiancé in your mushy voice and stare at your engagement ring for a while. Enjoy it!

Choose a Season for Your Wedding

Are you a baby blue hydrangea and oyster bar summer bride? Maybe you’re an evergreen black-tie winter bride? What about an autumn bride with amber leaves falling behind you, or a spring bride surrounded by bouquets of all colors? Narrowing in on one season for your big day can help get the wedding planning ball rolling. If you have a specific date or venue in mind, the sooner, the better as far as booking goes.

Consider Guest List

Do you want a big wedding or a small wedding? Are you interested in having a wedding party? Starting your guest list and taking your time will ensure feelings are spared, and that your day is full of your absolute favorite people.

Have a Target Budget Conversation

The first thing you should do is talk to your partner about is a “fall out of chair number” that you would not like to spend more than for the big day and anyone else who might be contributing. That way, you can set reasonable expectations and have a guide to stay within.

Research Wedding Planners

Deciding to hire a wedding planner can be a game-changer! Having someone experienced to hold your hand along the planning journey will smooth the process and immediately help lift that post-engagement overwhelmed feeling. You should consider their portfolio, experience, and the way they handle logistics. A planner will prioritize your vision to create the wedding day of your dreams!

SLP Events has created beautiful and seamless weddings from the idea to the day of, so consider embarking on this exciting wedding planning journey with SLP Events by scheduling a consultation!

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